Thank you, Mila. How can you tell that from what I wrote? I see totally conflicting messages in what he said, but on the other hand, he's not trying to "close the door".
I read over your sitch just now too. Alot of similar things, our house also was the one where all the kids friends came to. We knew each other since forever. People would always think fro the outside that we had a wonderful relationship and family.
We were still very intimate when the bomb dropped. How weird is that?
But different too, we don't work together, that must be really tough. You are quite clearly a very strong person. He must respect you for that.
I also wonder if the distance thing works in your favor, he's not really going to move to a far away city is he? She's really not going to leave her kids so far away is she? They can't really see each other much now. And you seem to be getting really good advice. I don't really know anything about DB, being in this place for all of several months now and very confused about it, but it certainly sounds like there could be some things about your sitch that work in your favor!
