I just finished catching up on your sitch. So funny that dwinter82 posted to your thread on 02/05/10 @ 7:19 about Vegas. As I was catching up on everyone's thread I was thinking the exact same thing.
As far as Facebook goes if you don't want to be tempted to view her information then just defriend her. I did that with my W and couldn't be happier that I have no clue what she is posting.
As of right now I have the boys every other weekend and on Tuesday night for the weeks that I don't have them the upcoming weekend.
I have been thinking a bunch since Saturday. The reason it was Saturday is because I drove down to the lake to pick up our boat since I am trying to unload it. That was the place where the bomb was dropped and it was the first time I have been back since. It brought back a ton of emotions. Over the last few days I have come to the realization that I do NOT want my W back.
This is the second time since we met that she has pulled this crap (e.g. running away) and not facing issues and I honestly don't want to have a person like that in my life. I do NOT want to be her friend or associate. I will be neighborly to her when I am around but I will not choose to be around her unless it is necessary.
I value the input that has been provided but I decided tonight that I will not be attending the Easter party or sitting with her in Church. This is the bed she made and she needs to lay in it.
Going to catch up on dwinter82's sitch now.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10
