Even if it means getting nasty. It is what we are here for. Just think of me as a D.A.M. and use me if you have to.
Never direct anger at your WAS. It's counter intuitive.
You have to release your anger before dealing with him and keep you and him on an even keel.
Honestly honey, just suck it up and play the good guy and fake it if you have to. Take out your frustrations on us if you have to. Its what we are here for and you wont hurt our feelings.
Let it go.
Deal with him on terms that put you on the high road. Do not stoop to his level.
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me
