dont give away the source of your intel...if someone you rech out to is double-dipping, they will explain how you know what you know...then he will become more secretive.
Amen, ditto and absolutely!
It's MUCH more powerful to be able to play the "I know all about you and so-and-so" card. Your cheating spouse not knowing what you know, and what you DON'T know, is a VERY powerful tool! They end up having to assume you know EVERYTHING.
