H4L congrats on the 180s. I'm glad that you feel good about how you handled those sitches. I find it hard to read the vibe of them from your posts, but it sounds like you are trying new things. I think it is wise to not engage your H when he is baiting/being passive aggressive.
Regarding whether to be the WAS...I can't comment on that. But when I referred to that, I meant when the LBS starts to feel like the WAS internally. I don't think you're there yet.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
