Not sure if you're still even reading here Mike....
As Rob will tell you, manning up is NOT being as ass to your wife because of her indiscretions.
And the opposite of manning up is not giving your spouse a free pass for cross country sex with another person.
If you seriously believe that this romp in the hay will bring healing to your marriage, you are seriously deluded. But time will tell.
One final note. In the future, it is helpful to those who offer their thoughts if you share the WHOLE picture of what's going on and what has gone on in the past. Your past indiscretions and your experience as swingers certainly adds a twist to what has taken place.
That being said, I still tend to go with the old adage that "two wrongs do NOT make a right."
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
