Pearl - Wow. Nice job, girlfriend! I was thinking of it from Fergie's view, and pissed off at the W! You really did nail it, but, you know... I'm still pissed off at the W! But, now I'm pissed off at Fergie, too!
Fergie -
OK, so, what do we have here?
We have a W who didn't get her needs met, and a H who didn't get his needs meet? The W "claims" to want to D. The H wants to fight for the marriage.
The 180's ARE?????
The GAL's ARE????? I, personally, think he has these down pat.
The B&B is closed for the season... And, you are right about the OM, unless he's her assistant!
Seems to me, you need a strategy. I have requested a male friends help. We'll see when/if he peeks his head in. He's a good one, and I think he will.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
