I'm sorry I have been a bit into my own crisis the past couple of days, but I'm catching up here.
I understand the doormat feeling - you know I do! And all I can suggest is we need to make some 180's - this time for US. That means setting boundaries like we never have before.
So I know this is emotional and you're feeling at the end of your rope. YOu have held this thing together now for the past year and although H has done some work too, you know you do deserve many thank yous for all you have done. Saved the marriage, basically.
But now it's time to build Rabbit's self respect. Can you come up with some boundaries you'd like to set and toss them around with us? Can we help you focus on the right wording, timing, and kick your butt to do it?
