Good point. He doesn't seem to realize I can see the text messages (well, not the actual messages, just number and time sent or received). She called him at 1am last night and he told me today he didn't pick up because he knew it would make me mad. Guess he wanted some kudos or something. What he didn't seem to realize is that I saw the phone records and knew he didn't pick up the phone, but I also saw that they started up an hour of texting back and forth right after she called. So either he's fishing for how much I know about his activities or straight up trying to deceive me. It was REALLY hard not to say what I knew, but instead I just shrugged my shoulders. Wasn't really sure how to respond beyond that so I didn't say anything.

I figure if he does leave me for OW or moves away to WA without us I'll have PLENTY of records (you should see his phone records 95% of all his total calls/texts have been to her).