I agree w/ the above- dont worry that H refused MC...only natural...set the example by going by yourself- do everything you can do to better yourself, for yourself...forget about H- he is checked out...
I know its hard b/c you're right in the middle of it...this is what I should have been doing all along, but failed to do so...if shirt hits the fan and ends the way you dont want it to...what I'm suggesting is what you will have wished you had done...
