I think I will try to suggest it with someone else around. Either way, I'll approach it from the kids and the financial standpoint. It really isn't much different then what we were doing before. I just had the kids 80% of the time and kept up the house full-time. He stayed there on his weekends with the kids, and I would leave. This arrangement would give us the kids and household responsibilties equal amount of time. That's a thought, it would be just like we were married, but without being there at the same time, J/K (-:
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10