Hi Dumped. OK, but let me tell you that that means very little now. My w "agreed" to MC, but is just going through the motions and that's pretty painful to me.
I posted a note to you elsewhere. Our situations sound very similar--my w left me for her parents, moved next door to them, and are getting all her needs met by them. Of course she "decided" to d-file on her own, but they facilitated and enabled it.
Are you still living with your h?
I'd like to hear more from you about it because I think I finally found someone (you) who might have something similar going on. The hope is that similar strategies might work well. Maybe there's a way we can learn something from each other. I've been given some specific advice from other counselors regarding my MIL and FIL that might apply in your situation. If you want to take it offline, feel free to send me an email at summerblue2525@yahoo.com.
