I'll give you some advice fromCB- don't concern yourself w/ reading into it...NC means removing yourself from the vortex...you are completely self-sufficient...MIL and W can run themselves in circles...just keep busy GAL-ing and be a great dad.
Thanks for looking in on my sitch- you have great opportunity, if you do everything opposite of what I did, you'll stand a great shot-BUT the key is to save yourself first!