when d-bomb was dropped, i begged, cried, and pleaded. h wanted me out of his life and couldn't stand the sight of me. u would've thought i had OM but no. no abuse, no OW/OM/OP for h or me.
This sounds a lot like my situation. We're just now in counseling and it has been 14 weeks of very little progress...just following my w's "friendly" divorce scenario (my situation is described under my name).
I noticed your name is "DumpedforMIL." My w left me essentially for her parents. She lives next door to them now and they satisfy all of her emotional needs (except sex and affection, of course, which she doesn't need right now). I feel like battling them is impossible.
How are you doing in your situation. Has your h accepted any type of counseling? Are you separated?
I guess I'm just looking for a connection to a kindred spirit here.
