OP He did. I emailed him some financial info and said I noticed he unfriended me and that I felt hurt. Short, simple.
He responded that he had unfriended me when he was drunk after reading emails from or lawyers..he was hurt that my lawyer decribed my feelings that H could be making more money..blah blah blah...
So I called H to clear the air. We had two conversations this morning, the second one was good. My H said he would always be my friend, he would always care for me... So he "refriended" me...
I plan to still stay dim, but when H isn't reactive and defensive as he was during our first conversation, he seems more like the true H I know him to be... As H says 'he can be offensive when drunk'..the sad thing is he used to never get drunk..thats a sad, new development within his MLC.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.