It just feels like a trainwreck waiting to happen. I can't do ANYTHING to fix this. So the days go by, and time passes, and he moves on, and the processes go forward, and the relationship we had continues to disappear.
He said we should "date" like we did in our second year of dating, BEFORE we got married. I was so young, and I had no kids, or job, or responsibilities. He can do that because he has no family obligations now, but how can I?
And yet he insinuates that if I don't do this, how will he know if he wants to be with me? Because he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is not there for him (which I'm not, because I live in a different city and raise our kids and work full-time).
