So happy to see you here, H! Yes, still an a$$. I'm doing good I think. Kind of weird day today.
X's good friend ( ) asked me out for lunch Friday. He kind of cornered me in my cubicle, and I didn't have much of a choice. I was going to have my good friend at work, K, and her boyfriend go with us, they all work there, so would have been ok. But then my supervisor calls me in and says apparently X's friend has a long-term reputation as a player. I was so embarrassed but also glad she warned me really. I don't have any dating experience to speak of, so players are the last thing I need to be anywhere near!
I have the trial tomorrow, but then on Friday when I go back to work; I'm planning on telling him that I decided b/c he's X's friend I don't think it's a good idea we go to lunch or anything.
One of my good friends at work has been telling me for the last couple weeks she doesn't think I'm ready to date except for maybe a rebound. She thinks I get too bothered by X when he does what he does. I don't know about that; I mean compared to 2 years ago, I think I've come a long long way, and I've only been friends with her for 3 months, but she does see me every day so I don't know.
Still emailing eharmony guy every day, just emailing him when he emails me. I think based on everyone's advice I'll just keep doing that; he can make a move or not I guess.