SecondChance, I don't believe a word that has come out of his mouth. In his mind, he thinks that he's reconciling. They talk about working on the marriage and relationship and yet, they do nothing about it. He's still in the fog and can't paddle up stream even with a lantern.
I would do what you need to do to protect you and your family financially. If he wakes up and can get his head screwed on straight, you can the reconsider getting back together, but unless he can show you that he is working very hard on reconciling and proving himself to you, i.e., doing all of the right things, etc., I wouldn't believe him right now. He means well, but his good intentions are not taking care of you and your family.
You have to be the grown up here...and do what you need to do to protect your assets/finances.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
