Please please please reconsider retaining an attorney. It sounds like H has retained a shark (or at least a jerk) and I don't want you to be caught off guard.
I know you don't want this D but you're going to have to deal with it if/when it comes to you. Life isn't fair. Bad things happen to good people. But I have faith that you will survive and thrive because you have done some hard work on yourself. You know how to make yourself happy and that is huge.
Let yourself have a bad day every now and then but get right back into it and create the life you know you deserve. That includes a good job and a great man.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
