I have been trying to use this article as the basis for why I am doing what I am doing. Obviously, a lot of people here feel that this is NOT the right way to go about it. How is my situation different than the one being talked about in this article?
It's not. I just disagree with the article, and so does just about every mainstream infidelity expert out there. The article is anecdotal -- not based on one shred of infidelity science or research. I've never understood the article -- it contradicts even other areas of MWD teaching, like "pursuit" and LRT and boundary-setting.
Your choice. But I've been here a long time, and studied hundreds of these things, and I've personally NEVER seen that approach work.
