as we move forward II

[mandyloo]

BeingMe, I Thankyou from the bottom of my heart, x

[TRUSTING]

Keep us posted. This could get very interesting.

[mandyloo]

I will do exactly that Trusting, although my expectations are at zero, ex is still very much in love with the wifey in his life x

[TRUSTING]

they don't know what love is

[forward]

I wouldn't be so sure that he is so into wifey. Been long enough for him to see her true colors.

[mandyloo]

mmmmmmm forward I wonder, just had ex's old aunt on the phone, after 5 months of not going to see her who should ring and ask if she could go up and see her but ex's delightful wifey, aunt says she didnt talk about anything much just my son and her bad back, very strange even aunt is confused that after 5 months of not bothering why she should just want to visit out of the blue, no apology over recent happenings or for not being in touch, all strange on their planet I reckon.

[forward]

ML, I guess it is best to not try to figure out what they are doing, tempting though it is. You may be right, maybe he is in still lala land.

And I guess we have to say that maybe the OP IS the love of their life or whatever--doesn't mean it will last or not last but maybe it was the best they could do, you know?

I am glad for your son that X reappeared and seems more together. That's probably the most important thing as significant damage can happen there.

[TRUSTING]

I think ML'ers as well as OW/OM try to make their life look as normal as possible, especially when things are tense or chaotic.

[mandyloo]

So todays news is the old home as sold, more money for ex and wifey, oh well sad as it may be to see the old place go, guess its time to move onto the next chapter

[TRUSTING]

Things like this can be so painful. Hang in there girl.