advice on OW's attempts at contact

[dday101798]

I mean she is not really taking action, but avoiding contact.

And that to me says your "SO" is just 'sweeping the matter under the rug', and what happens to things when they are swept under the rug? Will you feel secure with that looming around?

You consistantly use the word "request" in this situation. There is not enough information here, in this thread that tells me what your contibution was to make your "SO" walk and have an A, which is also the reason why I don't understand your rather relaxed stance of "requesting".

Especially when the wounds are so fresh. Most folks only a few months out of "the bomb" would be madder than hell still. And they would be demanding more of the WAS than in the way that I use the word "demand" it'self.