Will do that.
I'm in control, not her.

Not really considering expose to friends, just family.
Friends will judge her and condemn her, family won't.

I don't want to humiliate her.

I still love her.

Maybe not as my partner but as a human being that gave me (to this day) the most 12 amazing years of my life. (minus this 1 month).

Out of respect for that, I'll show grace even when I'm being firm.

Ta.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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