I don't know why she has not signed yet but its only been a week.

I think what I am really asking is "do just get this over with?" Giving her the money would remove all obstacles - and she would be free to go (local or otherwise).

I know I am in denial but part of me wants to think that giving her the money is a signal that I have totally "let go" or "given up" and that once I have given up the fight she might have second thoughts.

The worse case scenario is that it just accelerates the divorce. Maybe at this point this isn't a bad thing.


Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010