She came to me once and said that God told her to leave me and the marriage.
Right.
Ok, then ask her: how did God tell you leave the marriage. And she'll give some stupid answer.
Then either the same day or the next day or next week, ask her the same question.
I'm betting it won't be the same answer. The words will not be exact.
Then you have to think, well, if God talked to you -you know how God loves using up those rollover minutes on his IPhone (don't you think that he deserves a capital I?) - wouldn't you remember it.
Dude, your wife is lying to you about religion so she can hook up with another man.
Is God close to you and your wife? Well, if God is love, she'd be loving you by being honest, she'd be loving herself by being honest - OM didn't know she was married...what she forgot to tell him? The OM loves a liar (don't they all?) None of that seems like love. Being kind and gentle and honest is loving. Telling your spouse that Satan might be in your words. Red flag: not loving.
Seems like God is waiting for a little love so he can show up.