If she is committed, then she should be willing to prove it to you. She doesn't want to hurt someone? Too late bad choices meant someone was going to get hurt.
IF she is worthy of trust and forgiveness, you will know, by her actions.
Yes, I do think she is protecting OW. I mean she is not really taking action, but avoiding contact. Is that enough for me? That's the question right? Is it ok for me that this OW thinks she still loves her and in this relationship for what?
Do you think there will be more harm in requesting that SO write another NC letter that I read? Actually while I am reading this I know this is what I need.
