If she is the one that filed for D..why hasn't she signed??
If you are giving her the money so that you can move on- do it.
If you are giving her the money now to keep her close/take care of her- IMO..you are doing it for the wrong reason.
If you are in a financial situation where it is hard to part with the cash...wait until after the D is final- nothing wrong with using the time you are alotted.
I think this decision needs to be about you...what you need and want.
