I am not suggesting you go balls to the walls or get ugly or nasty but IMO all this coddling and pussy footing needs to stop today. I feel you are so afraid to stand up for yourself because you are fearful it will push your H to pull the D trigger. Honestly, he is in a [censored] position to D right now and he knows it. IMO there is a reason he is harping on the finances so much and I feel he thinks the sooner the money thing can be fixed the sooner he can divorce
I agree with most of this. Of course delaying the divorce based on finances shouldnt be your decision IMO but USING the time you have to your benefit shoould be your goal.
