Originally Posted By: libbyasking
Are the touch and goes part of the healing process for H and myself? Are they necessary for H to do them to continue his journey through the tunnel?


I've seen it described a few times on here like a child or teen wanting their independence but at the same time they need the security / stability that you provide.

I've also heard it may be because they are a little less "foggy" smile at the moment.

I think they still have an emotional connection to us no matter how crazy or nasty they act toward us. I also think they need to "check" to see where WE are in all of this. Some of them, for whatever reason, CANNOT have us moving to far away either.

I've been divorced now for almost a year. On Monday my ex sent me a picture of her and the kids.

My MLC WTF list is still growing grin


Don't stand still.