Hi! That is probably the hardest thing watching our kids have to go through this process too! My kids really seem to be doing ok...S14 misses his Dad but I am hoping that once the weather gets nicer, they will go do more things together than they have been. I do caution myself to keep my expectations low.
Mistakes are how we learn and grow! I am still working on detaching and think I am finally doing that now. I don't think as much about H, I don't remember the last time that I wondered what he was doing. I think I am finally accepting that this divorce is going to happen. I don't want him back in this state that he is in and know I have a lot more work to do on myself too!!!
I am sorry that you are struggling with the moving. You will be closer to family, right? It will be nice to have that support system. The kids will bounce back. My Dad was in the AF and we moved every 2 years...it was hard but we got to meet all kinds of friends and see lots of different places.
Well, hang in there...sounds like you are doing good despite everything!
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