I have been trying to use this article as the basis for why I am doing what I am doing. Obviously, a lot of people here feel that this is NOT the right way to go about it. How is my situation different than the one being talked about in this article? Why did it work for him but most of you think it will NOT work for me? Ever situation is different and one thing that works in one situation will not work in another. I get that, but I also can not convey how I am reading my W in these forums. I believe that I have to go with my gut and my heart. Afterall, I have known my W for 25 years and it is hard to present everything I am experiencing with her in these posts. I wish I did have a recording of the interaction so that you all could see what I'm seeing. Maybe I would see it differently too if I had to look at it from the outside. Woulda, shoulda, coulda!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

Thanks for any feedback,

Ken


Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs
S24 D21 D19
EA disc 6/09
2nd EA Fall 09
I move out 11/12/09
W and I switch 1/14/10
D Filed 3/17/10
W moves in with OM 6/8/10
D Final 6/21/10

http://tinyurl.com/ken62Part1