What signs have you seen that make you think turning 40 has some affect in all of this?
Sandi2, she was very adamant last summer about no parties or anything special to do with her 40th this year, unlike anyone else in the family, 40th parties are the norm. Now, like today at lunch she was complaining about her looks (wrinkles, hiding her face needing a make over). She has never taken a complement from me on how good I think she looks, ever. She has always found something negative to say if I had complemented her on her looks. Looking back, I think she was making some decision about our M just after her birthday last Aug. Maybe I'm grasping at straws, I don't know. -Lost Dad
Me 44 Her BIG 40 D 13 D 11 S 9 M'd 14yrs not in love bomb Sept 09 Wanting Separation Jan 10 Me trying to DB I don't hate my wife. I hate what she is doing.
