flowmom | need to commit to myself

[flowmom]

Kalni, CG, Gno and all of my thread readers: all of you have good advice for me. Gno was providing me with very specific advice based on a thumbnail sketch of my sitch and I value his opinion because of his insights into what my H's POV might be. He provided LOTS of caveats about his advice because he hasn't been following my thread and he assumes that there is much that he is not aware of. CG: you are the reality check because you warn me that if I don't act in my own best interest I will suffer the consequences. Kalni, you truly understand the calculus involved in my day to day interactions with H...not just as his estranged W but as a coparent. Everyone who posts here brings their own POV that is coloured by their own experience.

I'm not going to follow anyone's advice blindly. It's my style to bring in information and weigh it against my own experience and intuition. And soon that will include legal advice and information.