kissak - I agree, I actually told him when I discovered about the OW. "If you'd put as much effort into our relationship as you did into the affair all the things you said that you were unhappy about would have been solved".
trapt - I think that in his "anger" stage of his MLC he's made such a monster out of me in his mind that he doesn't know the REAL me at this stage.
jack - I will keep that joke in my pocket for when the time is right. Hope he gets it...but I have my doubts.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
