Is LRT applicable here?

[pearlharbr]

Ok, now I may fall for you! On top of jewelry you play bagpipes...sigh. I *love* bagpipes!

I agree with mindfull, you sound like a catch and she sounds like a dud. Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with her?

If you don't call her, either, she'll come sniffing around.

I'm not so sure she will. Even if she realized what a horrible mistake she made, she would feel so guilty about it, she would say to herself,"This was my doing. I deserve to be alone for this. He deserves someone better than me." That's what scares me about the LRT in this case.

She will. People in general, and women in particular, tend to want what we can't have.

Look, you tried pursuing and that didn't work. If you love her, give her what she wants. She wants space, she wants OM. Let her have both and move forward with your own life.

Did you read Puppy/robx's advice on Amybel's thread yet? Do it now. This is definitely what I think you should do.

There is no guarantee DBing will save your M. But if you work on becoming the best Fergie you can be you will save yourself. That said, following Rob's advice will give you the best shot at saving your M.

To answer your other questions: All cheaters lie. Period. She won't admit it to you because she knows it's wrong. She can very easily sleep with OM and go on a date with you the next day because she's cake eating. She will continue to do so unless / until you remove yourself from the menu.

Read other threads, you'll see the same things happening over and over.