Sandi, I really appreciate your feedback from a WAW's perspective. I agree with you about the H bieng the one to lead his family - I think leader more aptly describes his role than Head. My IC put it quite nicely a while back, she said "the Husband must be the head of the house, and his wife must be the heart" I thought is was nice...
BTW I saw my IC today and told her about my plan... she agreed 100% that it is a good idea. She was very happy that for the first time in my life I was standing up for myself and not letting someone walk all over me.
This is the most difficult, scariest thing I have ever had to do, not just the moving back thing, but the whole road ahead that I must travel. But I am determined to do it.
I am so glad I found this place, else I would be sitting like a sorry sap in my brothers apartment right now, hoping one day my wife would give me a 2nd chance.
I will give you an update on how it went tomorrow.
Please pray for me guys, I need all the help I can get....