If she is committed, then she should be willing to prove it to you. She doesn't want to hurt someone? Too late bad choices meant someone was going to get hurt.
IF she is worthy of trust and forgiveness, you will know, by her actions.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK