Don't get me wrong here, I've made it clear to her that she's free to leave and it was not what I wanted. She is the one whom is failing to act on what she wants and I'm not pushing her. She also has said that she wants to keep this (separation) nice and friendly, and be friends and not be like those other people who fight it out. I don't get it. -Lost Dad
Me 44 Her BIG 40 D 13 D 11 S 9 M'd 14yrs not in love bomb Sept 09 Wanting Separation Jan 10 Me trying to DB I don't hate my wife. I hate what she is doing.