Don't do it one on one, do it wtih his mother there or something... it puts a lean on HIm to say yes then...
If you go and ask him one on one he is more likley to say no
He's having an affair, whatever you ask for, he's leaning twoards no.. its just how it works ufnortunately... you can try one on one, but my advice is put his mother in the room when you ask him.. she's involved here so it does make sense that she be in the room
