Oh Gno...

The voice of reason once again speaks into my emotional turmoil and helps me find the calm in the storm. Thank you.

I have read your response six times now. Probably will take me a few more times to really let it sink in. I know you have been trying to tell me these things for a while. I think I am getting it. crazy

When you help me to see where my H might be coming from, it helps me find the strength and compassion to validate and hear him, rather than react. I know that we make progress when I can do that.

I guess I just need to be patient that eventually...... some day.... my needs will be met too? I hope.....

The question is how long that will take and if I can wait. But, you are right. It is important to focus on today and what I can control right now. Workin' on that....

Thanks again... and thanks for support from others as well... smile