future, I'm telling you this is an autopilot mechanism that goes on with WAW's who are about to embark on their first sexual encounter outside of their marriage while they are married, I'm not making it up, I have read about this very thing happening so many times that it is no longer something I'm surprised about, I fully expect it and since it's something that is so common place (yet most men are largely unaware of), i feel it's more of an autopilot process. They're making themselves look good for the OM, they want his approval, he (the OM) is high value to these women and they want to please him, it's exciting for these WAW's because they haven't felt like this in a long time, it makes them giddy and excited that they have someone new that they want to impress and these WAW's don't want to impress their LBH's, they want to leave them which means: no sex, making all the decisions, bossing their spouses around, dictating what will happen, being aggressive, mean, cruel, disrespectful, etc. These WAW's are also the same women who will act the exact opposite with the OM: feminine, submissive, laugh at every joke, talk for hours about their lives, hopes and dreams, extremely sexual, very touchy/feely, very "hungry", very agreeable, very respectful, accomodating, etc.
The same exact person acting 2 distinctly different ways in a short span of time. How do you account for this? WAW autopilot behavior.