Yikes, close call. Are you seeing the results from the positive reinforcement?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Shopping note: I went to Lucy yesterday and tried on the Perfect Core Pant. OMG, it really does suck you in! Actually was very comfy once I got them on. Definitely need the short length, the XS Short fit perfectly. Luckily they're out of black right now so I have some time to save up some money or find them on ebay for less. Ended up buying a cute tank for my BFF's birthday.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
The positive reinforcement worked. He lingered when he kissed me goodbye, so, I told him, "Nice! You're safe since there are kids in the room!" I got a bit of the deer in headlights from that one! LoL But, he was always "shy" that way...
So, today I went to S10's dress rehearsal for the school play. He's Paul Bunyan, and has the lead. LoL We are NOT an arts kind of family. This is a little out of the comfort zone. Aside from saying his lines to the ground for the first half, he did good!!! His female counterpart, is just a firecracker, and she is in a bright pink cowboy hat and pink Ugg boots, bossing him around everywhere! It's perfect!! I laughed until I cried!
Now I have to work. Again. Yuk
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
CC Statements - All check out. I-PASS Toll Statements - Check out, w/some questions = answered in acceptable manner Bank Statements - All check out.
Cell Phone Bill - incapable of obtaining - Last Resort - PI
GPS Tracking - Working on that... have the hardware, now need to figure out the software...
So, the plan is if I can get a phone slipped in his car, and track it through GPS, and it all checks out fine, I won't need a PI to trail him. But, I will probably need a PI to get the cell phone bill.
If that all checks out, I'll smack him. That's it. Just smack him.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
That sounds like a lot of work!! I guess it's good to know.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
