New to piecing. Short overview, SO had 3 month PA/EA. Exposed Dec 09. OW continues to attempt contact every few weeks, called SO's phone last night at midnight. We are working on relationship in MC, reading "Just between friends". SO doing most things right, NC, transparency, sharing. I am facing new feelings of depression, and finding it hard to GAL.
1. How do I stop the obsessive thoughts, when OW attempts contact they get worse. 2. Is it to late to contact OW's partner and inform them. Am i just a wimp or have others not told. 3. Should SI write OW again regarding no contact and staying for love. First and only note to her was day of exposure and stated, 'I love you but want to work on my marriage.'
Anybody have this experience of OW not going away?
