Try it, it can't hurt. Is what you're doing now working? Is it helping you feel better about you? No. Same here. The worst thing that can happen is nothing changes. We have to take our lives back and not be co-dependant on them. Like PDT says, embrace the suck! Not fun at all but necessary. Hang in there!
Got to love Puppy - time to imbrace the suck!
we did f*** for first time in 6 months shortly after i found out...no affection, just as you say monkey sex. sadly had visions of OM with her while doing it....whenever she puts a hand on my chest in bed or scratches my back as i toss and turn trying to sleep, the thought of DID SHE DO THIS FOR HIM....ALWAYS pops into my head...
get out of my head!!!!
The suck really likes to embrace me doesn't it...lol
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
