mb, if you think that sharing the house would work for you and the children, then I think it's a good idea. I've seen that recommended to help children in separation situations, but it does require more cooperation between the parents, so you need to be sure that that's not going to be a source of stress for you.
It really sounds like you have the right frame of mind for where you're at right now . One day at a time...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.