Yeah, I hear ya Cautious.

I don't mean that I am going to interogate every woman in my life about her past etc.

What I meant was that I want her to be open and up front about how she feels about me and what she thinks about me.

My female friend is such a person. I never ask her about her past but she volunteers it to me because she is in healing mode like me. We are totally honest with each other. If I do something she doesnt like she calls me on it. I LOVE THIS about her. She is the best friend I have ever had for this reason.

Now if my future lover / GF / wife were this way I think we could make it through anything.

And I know nobody is perfect. I have a lot of flaws myself that I am working on but all are minor mox-nix stuff.

I have realistic expectatins and will go into any future relationship with an open mind as well as an open heart.

Thx


Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me