I don't mean that I am going to interogate every woman in my life about her past etc.
What I meant was that I want her to be open and up front about how she feels about me and what she thinks about me.
My female friend is such a person. I never ask her about her past but she volunteers it to me because she is in healing mode like me. We are totally honest with each other. If I do something she doesnt like she calls me on it. I LOVE THIS about her. She is the best friend I have ever had for this reason.
Now if my future lover / GF / wife were this way I think we could make it through anything.
And I know nobody is perfect. I have a lot of flaws myself that I am working on but all are minor mox-nix stuff.
I have realistic expectatins and will go into any future relationship with an open mind as well as an open heart.
Thx
Me:48 W:55 M:22 T:23 Bomb:19Nov09 S:15Jan10 D:11Feb10 EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10 Fast track to her divorcing me