SA, Jack, Bworl, glamgirl, confusedwife, kissak. Thank you my friends you all seem to agree that he is just full of himself.
Bworl you have no idea how much I wanted to send him this
Quote:
"There is no separation between personal and professional integrity. One without the other means you have none. Lie and cheat or not professionally, you have done both personally and continue to do so. You have zero integrity with me, or with anyone else you are not currently doing in bed. Save your laments for someone easily fooled by words disguised as meaning."
But I better not
Jack I see your point
Quote:
"Look, I'll be one of the first ones to defend the MLCer and tell you that what they are going through is harder than anything you can imagine...HOWEVER, not when they they are using you and your confusion against you".
That's how I'm trying to look at it, he is probably going through hell and at times I really feel for him, other times I just want to kill him.
I know that the affair is nowhere to be over, and he is not expressing any confusion regarding his choices. He just really wants me to like him and understand him and forgive him and to be there for him just like before accept no sex, he has OW for the "passion" part. The ultimate selfishness....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO