OK, Mike, I haven't read your entire sitch... but you are SERIOUSLY delusional here and your delusion is going to lead to the destruction of your marriage.
Your W is planning on going to have a weekend full of fun and sex and you're going to sit there and let it happen? And after she has been "pumped up" full of her wild, wonderful weekend... you EXPECT her to think rationally?
You are receiving GOOD advice from MEN that have been there and done that and bear the scars to prove it... YET... you think you're different.
I'm going to tell you this only one time Mike and then I'm going to butt out of your thread for good.
I can understand why your W wants to drop you like a hot potato. In all my life I have NEVER seen a woman stay with a man who has ZERO self-respect. A man who will let her do whatever she wants without limit. If she sticks around it will be because it suits her for the time being and when a better prospect comes along she will be gone.
A woman DEMANDS a man who can PROTECT her and PROVIDE for her. If he can't do that he is history.
STAND UP and BE A MAN. PROTECT YOUR WIFE FROM HERSELF. PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN NOW or you will lose her for good.
