Will I ever be forgiven???

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I just won't be able to work on anything if she continues to blame me for 100% of the problems.

And you CAN'T, and you're RIGHT. Once the WAS owns up to their part, the road to brighter days, no matter what the destination, can start to be traveled.

EDIT - however, you need to be cleansed of that feeling of betrayel. I truly believe as indicated by "Mom" here, the WAS is hesitant to approach the LBS so long as that anger and resentment is harbored by the LBS. Even my (x)W has said so of me.