The problem I have with the email he sent you is that it seems like a whole bunch of smoke and mirror and deflection.
"I'm still bonking the biotch, but I want you to feel sorry for me and see how hard this is for me."
Look, I'll be one of the first ones to defend the MLCer and tell you that what they are going through is harder than anything you can imagine...HOWEVER, not when they they are using you and your confusion against you.
Mila, you already acknowledged the email. Nothing more you have to do.
You may want too, and that is up to you, but if you are expecting a breakthrough communication based upon his "POOR ME" email...you won't get it.
Until his affair dies on its own...those letters of his are smoke and mirrors, designed to make you feel bad for him.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK